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[charlie_lael]

We had an oopsie..*
Please don't judge. I know there are a lot of you trying right now and a lot that have been trying for awhile. We will be happy either way it goes, but honestly...

Im kind of freaking out. We're in the middle of transitioning out of the military and we're about to spend the next few years with our in laws while my husband goes to school. It is not the best time right now. We're usually so careful!

*I've had EWCM the past couple days so I know im fertile. I went to the bathroom when i realized what happened and we also used something from pure romance whenwe dtd, not a lube, but Iit makes you feel tingly (sorry tmi). So im thinking that could have killed sperm and will lower our chances. I'm not tracking exact ovulation, but according to my period app I should ovulate in two days. I know for a fact that when I got pregnant with our son it was from dtd a couple days before ov.*

So really it's just a two week waiting game now.*

Again, we'll be happy either way. A baby is an amazing blessing. It's just really really bad timing. I leave it to God now.*Anyone want to join me in my wait please?*

 

[charlie_lael]

Also. I'm extremely sorry if this sounds insensitive to those trying. We'll be happy either way. Now is just not the best time for us.

AF is due on the 31st so I guess I'll be testing on the first. Anyone due around the same time?

 

[sierraecho89]

I'm trying to tell myself "if it's meant to be, it'll happen!" but that only makes me feel better sometimes. =) It would be nice if God/the universe would, you know, tell me about His plans sometimes rather than making me guess. xD

I'll wait with ya, but I've got a full month. CD2 today. Woo-freaking-hoo.

I take it you're hoping for baby? =) Or are you more conflicted?

 

[charlie_lael]

More conflicted. We both would love another baby. It's just a really stressful time for us to try right now. I know in my heart of hearts that we would be fine if I am pregnant it just wouldn't be ideal.

 

[Lost7]

If you're that worried why didn't you take a morning after pill? I know you're not tracking ovulation but that would have covered you.
If you've been careful apart from the oopsie moment you're probably going to be okay. Depending really on when or rather if you have ovulated. You don't know for sure.
The fact you're stressing about it might also go against getting pregnant anyway.

Good luck, Fingers crossed you get the answer you want.

 

[pinkpassion]

^^^ gosh... maybe you didn't mean it that way but your post sounds really ugly... some people don't believe in morning after pills or anything, it sounds to me that she doesn't want to interfere if it were to happen but they just didn't intend on it happening and it's not the best timing... no need to be like that to her!!

Op, good luck!! I'll be stalking for updates!!!

 

[Lost7]

I didn't mean it to come across like that - I apologise. I'm sorry if my reply offended you. I didn't think I was rude but I do apologise if that's the way my message was taken.
Best of luck.

 

[charlie_lael]

Like pinkpassion said, we'd welcome a baby either way. We want another baby and we understand a baby is a huge blessing, but right now we're in the middle of a huge transition and it's just a hard time. Yes, im stressing right now, I think anyone would be, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't welcome another baby into my arms.

As for the morning after pill, I have no idea where I would get that our If I need to talk to my doctor first and it's something I'd have to do a lot of research on before taking it. BC pills really mess with the women in my family so I don't take them and I don't know if I'd be comfortable taking a morning after pill. Either way it's too late now.

 

[charlie_lael]

No worries. I understand. The Internet is a hard place for sensitive talk. Lol

 

[vjimenez1104]

Good Luck! Everything will work out either way My DD was a pleasant surprise for us after 2 months of freaking out lol.... We were in the process of moving, changing jobs, and DH had just gone back to school so very tight on income. but somehow everything just worked out PERFECTLY and I wouldn't change a thing

 

[charlie_lael]

Thank you. That's really encouraging.

 

[sierraecho89]

It might be a time of transition, but from what I hear, there's never really a "right" time to have kids anyway; you might think it is only to have CRAZINESS happen right before the birth (as happened to my parents) or you might think this is the absolutely worst time, but actually... you'll get through it. =)

HUGS

 

[vjimenez1104]

Have you tested at all yet??? I'm curious to see

 

[charlie_lael]

I tested today and it was bfn. I'm anywhere between 7-10dpo. AF is due the 29th.

I've been getting sore bbs like in my first pregnancy, but they're less sore today. I'm starting to think I'm imagining symptoms. Also bleeding gums and increased milk supply?