Damn. Well, this sucks. I'd love to be pregnant right now, sigh. Did you get off the birth control? I hate the idea of taking them, I hate artificial things. I think if you were meant to get pregnant, you will.
I was one giant pregnancy symptom while on the pill. I hated every second of it.
I have been off them since the beginning of this year. I was only on them for 3-4 years but it was HELL. If I wasn't sick, I was a psycho-bitch. I switched pills every three months because that's how long I had to wait for my body to settle into each and IT NEVER DID. When I finally found one that worked for me, a newer, cheaper version of it came out and no one woudl carry the one I was on (Ocella) and I was right back at square one. Finally, J and I talked and I pitched them all in the bin! Yay!
Right now we're doing condoms. That's all we need. There is nothing artificial dictating my hormones and I don't feel like crap all the time. The only problem with them is that I feel like they are super abrasive sometimes compared to just skin-on-skin (which we *really* miss)
Have you considered a copper IUD? Non-hormonal, super effective.