kelzyboo
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Hi all,
As you probably know i have a beautiful 5 year old daughter with ASD and i have just found out i am expecting again and i'm terrified! I have SPD with my pregnancies and i'm worried how i will cope with my little girl and severe SPD as i had with her but whats really worrying me is how my daughter will react to the pregnancy.
My little girl is very high functioning and i am not worried about her understanding but her feelings toward the baby. She has recently been talking about wanting a brother or sister and the things she can do to help out but i am worried she will feel pushed out, i love her more than life and i would never want her to feel this way. I want to involve her in the pregnancy as much as she will allow me to but i'm not sure how?
Anyone else have a child with ASD and then had another child?
I just want to help her understand what's happening and adjust to the big changes it will bring, i hope having a sibling will be a good thing for her and i want to help her to bond as much as i can, the last thing i want is for her to feel that the baby is taking her place. She's been my only child for 5 years and suddenly sharing the attention will be hard for her, i know that but i want to make it as easy as i can for her. She's my baby, she will always be my baby no matter how many other babies i have i just want to make sure she knows this.
Any idea's how i can involve her and make sure she knows that although there will be another little person that i love as much it will never make me love her any less, in fact, watching her be the brilliant big sister i know she will be will make me love her even more (if thats possible)
Thanks xx
As you probably know i have a beautiful 5 year old daughter with ASD and i have just found out i am expecting again and i'm terrified! I have SPD with my pregnancies and i'm worried how i will cope with my little girl and severe SPD as i had with her but whats really worrying me is how my daughter will react to the pregnancy.
My little girl is very high functioning and i am not worried about her understanding but her feelings toward the baby. She has recently been talking about wanting a brother or sister and the things she can do to help out but i am worried she will feel pushed out, i love her more than life and i would never want her to feel this way. I want to involve her in the pregnancy as much as she will allow me to but i'm not sure how?
Anyone else have a child with ASD and then had another child?
I just want to help her understand what's happening and adjust to the big changes it will bring, i hope having a sibling will be a good thing for her and i want to help her to bond as much as i can, the last thing i want is for her to feel that the baby is taking her place. She's been my only child for 5 years and suddenly sharing the attention will be hard for her, i know that but i want to make it as easy as i can for her. She's my baby, she will always be my baby no matter how many other babies i have i just want to make sure she knows this.
Any idea's how i can involve her and make sure she knows that although there will be another little person that i love as much it will never make me love her any less, in fact, watching her be the brilliant big sister i know she will be will make me love her even more (if thats possible)
Thanks xx