Previous episiotomies

[aliss]

Are you guys feeling any pressure down there particularly on the incision site??

 

[JohnsMom]

I can barely walk is carrying my DS or after sitting on something hard for a bit. I have been feeling so much pressure and sometimes the incision bleeds a little, like if standing for a long while.
I have a question, maybe a little to personal, but does anyone else's hurt when being intimate? I have actually cried because it hurt. (Really sorry if to personal)

 

[aliss]

Thanks!

Yeah it almost feels like the bottom floor is just... pain/pressure? I don't even know how to describe it other than feeling like a building that's just been blown up and all the floors are crashing down

 

[lollypops]

Ive had problems since I got mine 6 y ago, always had pain during intimacy, I have had a hell of alot of pressure down there very red and swollen I had a 3rd degree tear after it all, even tho they said theyd make small cut for forceps!

 

[lollypops]

I can barely walk is carrying my DS or after sitting on something hard for a bit. I have been feeling so much pressure and sometimes the incision bleeds a little, like if standing for a long while.
I have a question, maybe a little to personal, but does anyone else's hurt when being intimate? I have actually cried because it hurt. (Really sorry if to personal)

I wld get that checkd out if it has been bleeding see what midwife thinks x

 

[JohnsMom]

My doctor made a cut then I ripped from cervix to butt... I hurt everytime with my DH and the poor man does not get to much very often we BDed only 3 time in the month of getting Charlie... and my doctor seems to see no problem with this. He says some women just don't enjoy sex after kids.... ummmm I would like to enjoy it again!!!!!

 

[JohnsMom]

He says that red heads don't heal... I love his logic... If I could, I would get a different doctor.

 

[lollypops]

I was told the pain was psychological and I had to deal with it! X sumtimes I think they jst dnt care x

 

[Amarna]

Red heads don't heal?! Tell me he's not being serious. I got an episiotomy 5 years ago with my DD's birth, it still aches from time to time, sex doesn't bother me too much unless we're rough, then it can hurt a bit. And I have been getting a pressure where I was cut from time to time. But for me it's more of an annoyance than anything else. If it ever gets really bad I hope my doctor doesn't just dismiss it like that!

 

[Liesje]

My mother said her scar got all hard on the inside (inside under the skin, not the surface where the stitches are) after and still hurts sometimes.

 

[Liesje]

He says that red heads don't heal... I love his logic... If I could, I would get a different doctor.

There was an episode of Myth Busters where they busted the myth that redheads don't handle pain as well as others (I didn't even know what was a myth?) and it's apparently not true... Just thought I'd share