I was wondering what the proper etiquette is for those out of state. I'm supposed to give a list of womb "I'd" want to invite and for example I have two sisters in law who live out of state. One comes home often and she lives only a few short hours away. The other lives MUCH farther away, has a job, twins and is unlikely to come for the expense it would cost her and my bil. I'm wondering what to do. Should I invite one sil without the other because I wouldn't want to put her on the spot? OR is etiquette to invite her anyways and let her RSVP? I also have another common friend with my husband who is out of state but though she "may" come because her parents live here in the area, I also don't want her to think we're being greedy if etiquette is to only invite those who live in your vicinity. Any help you can give would be appreciated as I wouldn't want to affend anyone. Thank you!