Okay I am CD25, and guessing about 11dpo (I am not sure when exactly I ovulated) in an estimated 28day cycle (Once again estimated as last month I was 3 days early and I have only been off birth control pills since August so I am guessing I could get irregular cycles but so far they are about steady 25-28ish days) I have NO cramps (Usually have cramps from AF around this time) and am feeling good. Breasts are a little bit sensitive but not nearly as much as last month when I mistook the boob-pain as preg signs but they were actually just signs of AF. Okay now for my question.. My hubbies birthday is tomorrow and the cake that he LOVES is something I make that has a little bit of Kahlua soaked in to the cooked cake. Kahlua is 20% alcohol but I do not put much in and the cake is very large so I wont be having much- but I am afraid that I am going to have to tell him "No I can't make you your favorite cake even though I said I would". Could I make it without the Kahlua? Yes, but it wouldn't be the same cake because that stuff adds a lot of flavor, Lol. So.. looking for advice. We are non-drinkers, non smokers etc.. so if I am pregnant this baby has not been effected by even any second hand smoke or sips of wine... but I am guessing that having some of this cake is a big no no.. am I correct?