tryingin2013
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Hi all. I'm new here. This is my first post.
My BF and I have been ttc for 5 months. I quit the pill 5 months ago. AF just showed up today and I feel really let down. We have pretty much done the BD each month multiple times every day during my fertile window and he on average(this is where the tmi comes in!). Some days he has ejactulated a dozen times...most days at least 6, yes, he is an amazing specimen. So I should have plenty of viable sperm laying in wait, right?
I've had 2 children and he has had one, so we know we both used to be fertile at least.
My cycles since being off bc were 29 days, 3 that were 28 and now the last 2 were 25 days. I'm worried about perimenopause with the short cycles. Or maybe I have really been pregnant and my body is aborting because of the smoking
I'm 32 and have a 10 yr old and a 7 yr old. I quit smoking a couple weeks before I got pregnant with my first and quit for 10 yrs. I started again this last yr after getting a divorce. I've smoked less than a year now. Could this be what is preventing me from conceiving? Of course as soon as I see a BFP I will quit...actually I'm quitting in the morning regardless now. I've read too much on smoking and infertility to continue. Stupid. I should know better. There are so many health risks and I'm no idiot. So, please, no lectures on the smoking.
Thanks for listening. I'm just so disheartened.
My BF and I have been ttc for 5 months. I quit the pill 5 months ago. AF just showed up today and I feel really let down. We have pretty much done the BD each month multiple times every day during my fertile window and he on average(this is where the tmi comes in!). Some days he has ejactulated a dozen times...most days at least 6, yes, he is an amazing specimen. So I should have plenty of viable sperm laying in wait, right?
I've had 2 children and he has had one, so we know we both used to be fertile at least.
My cycles since being off bc were 29 days, 3 that were 28 and now the last 2 were 25 days. I'm worried about perimenopause with the short cycles. Or maybe I have really been pregnant and my body is aborting because of the smoking
I'm 32 and have a 10 yr old and a 7 yr old. I quit smoking a couple weeks before I got pregnant with my first and quit for 10 yrs. I started again this last yr after getting a divorce. I've smoked less than a year now. Could this be what is preventing me from conceiving? Of course as soon as I see a BFP I will quit...actually I'm quitting in the morning regardless now. I've read too much on smoking and infertility to continue. Stupid. I should know better. There are so many health risks and I'm no idiot. So, please, no lectures on the smoking.
Thanks for listening. I'm just so disheartened.