Some of you will be familiar with my situation with my 'good' friend and kind of SIL - who has said she is too busy to come to my baby shower
She and OH's brother are getting married in June but have said that no children are invited. So we asked if they didn't mind us getting a room at the hotel and having a baby sitter for LO (like rafwife suggested )- so we can check on him and feed him etc, but they have said no ~We then confirmed that LO would definately have nothing to do with wedding, but they still said no.
They have said that they can make no exceptions (despite that fact that our LO will be the only family baby). So if LO can't go, I can't either (feeding)and OH doesn't want to either, but is supposed to be best man!
So called friend keeps updating her facebook status about how her life is so unfair - and it is always after I try texting or FBing her (to which she NEVER replies)
It is so stressful to know what to do. I know OH is gutted, but I haven't been the one to impose all these constraints, so I don't feel like I have been the one to make him chose between his brother's 'perfect day' and looking after his own family.
Now I feel like even if they changed their minds, I have been made to feel so uncomfortable, I don't want to go!
Keeps making me cry (and I keep thinking that maybe OH will ditch us because he is gutted too)
She and OH's brother are getting married in June but have said that no children are invited. So we asked if they didn't mind us getting a room at the hotel and having a baby sitter for LO (like rafwife suggested )- so we can check on him and feed him etc, but they have said no ~We then confirmed that LO would definately have nothing to do with wedding, but they still said no.
They have said that they can make no exceptions (despite that fact that our LO will be the only family baby). So if LO can't go, I can't either (feeding)and OH doesn't want to either, but is supposed to be best man!
So called friend keeps updating her facebook status about how her life is so unfair - and it is always after I try texting or FBing her (to which she NEVER replies)
It is so stressful to know what to do. I know OH is gutted, but I haven't been the one to impose all these constraints, so I don't feel like I have been the one to make him chose between his brother's 'perfect day' and looking after his own family.
Now I feel like even if they changed their minds, I have been made to feel so uncomfortable, I don't want to go!
Keeps making me cry (and I keep thinking that maybe OH will ditch us because he is gutted too)