Laura27
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Hi ladies....i'm just posting a massive rant because i'm so frustrated right now!! DH and I agreed to start trying last month...which was great! However, at the moment we're rarely having sex, probably once every couple of weeks at a push. I tried instigating it more, but DH then decided I was putting "too much pressure" on him, so basically shot me down! So then I decided I would just gently instigate it around the time I was getting a positive OPK...well we had one opportunity last month after a positive and we had sex but DH didnt 'finish'. I got really upset and told him we only have a few days per month where its possible to catch the egg....he acted like i'd completely made this up, and basically he was under the impression that sex at anytime could result in a pregnancy! So he agreed to put more effort in....which didnt happen I snapped a few nights ago after bringing it up again and him saying something like "we did it last week" like he was doing me a favour! He confessed that he doesnt feel like having sex much at the moment, and came up with various excuses which changed everytime we went over it. So we havent spoken for a couple of days until about an hour ago....he said he doesnt want to fight, and that he just doesnt need as much sex as me? He wants baby making to be fun and to just happens when it happens, but cant understand that having sex a couple of times a month just isnt going to work!! He's now gone away for the weekend and I had positive OPK's yesterday so no chance for me this month. Sorry for the rant, I just feel so down, and I feel like this should be so much easier than it is.... Is anyone else in the same boat?