My OH hates the pressure and being told 'we have to have sex now to make a baby', he finds that a total turn off. So I don't tell him that, we've really only just started NTNP for our second, so I'm hoping he'll be in the mood at the right time this month! I think he actually has unrealistic expectations about how easy it is to have kids, haha, as with our first we literally go pregnant after one shag, we know exactly when it happened as we only had sex once in about a three week period due to being sick and busy. So I think he thinks it's an easy thing, where I know that we were probably extremely lucky the first time around and there's no guarantee it won't take months this time around. Because of this I don't think he knows he has to make an effort!