Rant: Judgmental people

[mysteriouseye]

Pointless rant to be honest that I need or there is a potential I might bite someone’s head off. This probably is because of my hormones so if you’re baffled as to why I got so peed off that probably is it

I put up a status saying RIP Peaches Geodolf after finding out that she died, I hadn’t always particularly liked peaches, but I thought it was wonderful how she managed to go from huge party girl to a blossoming mother, and you could tell she adored her sons. When my INCREDIBLY judgmental friend who feels the need to write statuses that PISS me off all the time (for example one said ‘I literally cannot stand people that leave the house with wet hair, DRY YOUR HAIR BEFORE YOUR LEAVE THE HOUSE’… she has no kids and is planning to try for one… It really pissed me off I leave with my hair wet quite a lot because I work full time and sometimes the morning is the only time I have to wash my hair and jump in the shower. In the evening by the time I have managed to get little one to sleep I want to go bed!. She got a lot of reactions on this status she posted and people were saying ‘oh well you wait until you have children drying your hair is a luxury’ she had offended a lot of people but still wouldn’t give in and apologize for such a horrible comment. Anyway back to the status about Peaches she put ‘Dun feel sorry for her at all crazy family! I feel for her poor children she should know after her mum killed herself n left her!!’ … that was her exact sentence… I commented that I thought she was a good mum and we don’t even know if it was drugs and her reply back ‘WE SHALL SEE I FINK WAS AN OVERDOSE’ …… I dunno I guess she just pisses me off because she is so freaking judgmental… always judging people always commenting on other people like she is bloody perfection…

 

[ashleyg]

I'm not a fan of people who post their judg-y thoughts about others for everyone to see either, I have a few friends on my Facebook like that
I think people need to learn when to shut up lol. If you're judgmental, fine whatever. But keep it to yourself!

 

[mysteriouseye]

I know it really pisses me off… I wouldn’t mind if it was every now and then, but it’s everyday about people that she doesn’t even know!! She gets the train to work every morning and writes statuses about the people on the train (wet hair, stubbly armpits, why are you doing your make up on the train shouldn’t you of done it at home)… GGGRRRRRR

 

[ChristiansMum]

I know exactly how you feel. I had loads of statuses about it on Facebook last night and everyone saying it was drugs ect but I think people forget that her youngest son isn't even a year old yet! And everyone just jumping to conclusions saying drugs, what about if she had a medical condition nobody knew about and that was the reason? It really gets to me when people judge, but yes if it was drugs then I do think it was very selfish but no body knows yet so why just assume?! Really annoys me!!xx

 

[leahtaba]

What does it matter how she died. Its a tradgedy. I had the same on my facebook when amy winehouse and phillip seamore hoffman died lots of 'no sympathy for druggies' statuss. What lovely people hey!

 

[Unexpected212]

I put 'So sad to hear about Peaches, her poor boys' and straight away people were like 'Oh it's probably a suicide or overdose' or 'So? people die every day?'

People can be so negative and cruel sometimes. Regardless of how she has died she has left behind a young family and that is truly tragic. It doesn't mean that all of the other people that died don't matter.

 

[eris]

Sorry, but just from how your friend types it sounds like she shouldn't be judging anyone.

/judgmental

 

[JoHio]

I don't even know who this Peaches is, but the comments sound awful. Even if she did die of an overdose, it is awful. Addiction and dependency are horrible things. Struggling with them does not make you a horrible person.

What a bunch of asshats.

 

[GemM83]

We were talking about it at work today, and even though the police have already said that there were no illegal drugs on the premises and that her death is not being classed as suspicious they still keep on slagging the poor girl off saying that she was quite obviously a druggy, just look at her mother and step father!!! Soooooo judgemental.


At the end of the day a young woman and mother has died and those two littlens are now without their mummy. People should take their heads out of their ar*es and take a long hard look at themselves! Nothing is so black and white in this world.

 

[toffee87]

Firstly, I don't dry my hair fully. I dry some and tie it ha ha. And our baby isn't here yet.

I don't know much of Peaches, but no matter what the press let us think-she is someone's mum, sister, daughter etc.

 

[Sqwidge]

I never dry my hair, if I do it goes bloody massive!

It's very sad about Peaches, and people shouldn't judge.