So it's been 2 weeks since the D&C, and My Dr had said that 2 weeks out is fine to start trying again.
I'm spotting still, however. So I talked to DH, and he was on board with
- albeit carefully, and even agreed to wash throroughly before hand to help prevent any infection posibilities, etc - since I am still spotting (not sure it's a requirement but was trying to be careful anyhow).
DH is not one to when the 
is here anyhow - I'm sure a lot of men are turned off by that - and he's one, but he was in agreement. He went upstairs to bed about 10 minutes ago, and I followed - when i got up there I asked if he had cleaned up - and he had forgotten and wasn't all that excited about getting up again to do so - then he saw the towel I took to lay down on the bed. He asked what the towel was for - I told him I didn't want to get any blood on the bed. He said "I thought you were only spotting".... 
I said- "well, yes, but it IS blood, and you're going to be going IN and OUT and there's a chance it can still get on the bed.." he says "Oh. Well i don't know if we should do anything then - you don't sound like you are completely healed."
I gave up and walked out.
Considering I am in high fertility according to the Clear Blue easy monitor, we may be missing our window of opportunity now.
I'm just frustrated. Oh, and this is completely off topic but a couple weeks ago i had a glass of milk by my chair and DD accidentally bumped it, and it spilled. I cleaned up most of it, but we were planning on scrubbing carpets anyhow - so didn't worry about it much - and now I can SMELL It .. YUCK.. totally unrelated but it's contributing to my 'sour' mood
oh and it does not help that I have been taking maca for a week so that has kicked up the old sex drive so - it's REAL frustration on that take too.
I'm spotting still, however. So I talked to DH, and he was on board with
- albeit carefully, and even agreed to wash throroughly before hand to help prevent any infection posibilities, etc - since I am still spotting (not sure it's a requirement but was trying to be careful anyhow). DH is not one to
when the is here anyhow - I'm sure a lot of men are turned off by that - and he's one, but he was in agreement. He went upstairs to bed about 10 minutes ago, and I followed - when i got up there I asked if he had cleaned up - and he had forgotten and wasn't all that excited about getting up again to do so - then he saw the towel I took to lay down on the bed. He asked what the towel was for - I told him I didn't want to get any blood on the bed. He said "I thought you were only spotting".... I said- "well, yes, but it IS blood, and you're going to be going IN and OUT and there's a chance it can still get on the bed.." he says "Oh. Well i don't know if we should do anything then - you don't sound like you are completely healed." I gave up and walked out.
Considering I am in high fertility according to the Clear Blue easy monitor, we may be missing our window of opportunity now.
I'm just frustrated. Oh, and this is completely off topic but a couple weeks ago i had a glass of milk by my chair and DD accidentally bumped it, and it spilled. I cleaned up most of it, but we were planning on scrubbing carpets anyhow - so didn't worry about it much - and now I can SMELL It .. YUCK.. totally unrelated but it's contributing to my 'sour' mood
oh and it does not help that I have been taking maca for a week so that has kicked up the old sex drive so - it's REAL frustration on that take too.
Sometimes they really don't understand how emotional we can get about trying to have a baby. I hope mines on board this month, because in 5 days I ovulate and I asked him if we could have sex all week, and he agreed. 
I would do it everyday of the month if he would let me even if we weren't trying to conceive, but he has back problems and I can understand. 
