Rant!!!

[Spaggy37]

I am happy that my cousin had her baby what people(my mum) tends to forget is that it was the same day as i was up the same hospital going through a miscarriage (1 week 1 day ago only found out last Thurs(22/9/11)) so i wonder why she is so shocked that i haven't been round to see the baby, or that my daughter hasn't been round, hmmmmm could that be that she is 14 and needed me to drive her there, that would be me who has been on bed rest for 2 weeks cos i was having hmmm let me think a damn miscarriage, thx all RANT OVER!!!!!!!!

 

[Maggie39]

People can be so inconsiderate - it is unbelievable really! Can't they understand we have suffered a loss and are grieving! And maybe you don't want to go visit a new baby right now! I'm having a bad day myself with someone telling me they are preggers and how easy it was to get pregnant and everything - but your situation is much more difficult with your mum being so inconsiderate. I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[Spaggy37]

People can be so inconsiderate - it is unbelievable really! Can't they understand we have suffered a loss and are grieving! And maybe you don't want to go visit a new baby right now! I'm having a bad day myself with someone telling me they are preggers and how easy it was to get pregnant and everything - but your situation is much more difficult with your mum being so inconsiderate. I'm so sorry for your loss

Thanks for your understanding Just needed to get it off my chest, it was bad enough that she felt she needed to phone me about the visit to the baby, let alone for her to tell me that my cousin had been to see my nanny with the baby, how many more times do i need to be subjected to this, it seems that she can't talk to me at the mo without mentioning the baby

 

[Mrskg]

I feel since my mmc I have changed an so has everyone around me i see a lot of them in a whole new light x when someone dies we talk about them when they are gone but with a miscarriage that doesn't seem to be the case I think most of the people around me just assume Im over it by now no one asks to find out other wise x I'm so glad we have each other on here an it's a great place to have that rant x

I am so sorry for your loss take all the time you need to heal x