Real reason why hubby wants to wait....

[littlesteph]

Found out today the real reason why hubby wants to wait to have more children.
I know he wants more as he asks our little ones if they want a baby brother or sister.
of course finance is one of them, knew that one as I feel the same,
but the other reason is because he afraid of what the pregnancy will do to me.
I don't have easy pregnancies, every pregnancy I have had something has happened.
my 1st was an early miscarriage
2nd ended up being induced at 36 weeks because of iugr and my placenta had started to fail
and 3rd a few bleeds, lost plug a few times and contractions and reduced movements both from 33 weeks till I had him at 39 weeks.

I've also just been referred for phyiso for my back and have to be sent off for an mri which the phyiso consultant should refer me when I see them, but the doctor wants me referred. There is a chance I have a curve in my spin, so it needs to be checked.

Hubby wants to wait to get the results back from that before we make a decision to whether we do have anymore.
I can understand where he is coming from, but I just can't image never being pregnant again. I've always wanted 3 or 4 kids.

 

[Amy1123]

I wish you luck! Just remember you are so very lucky to have two.

 

[busytulip]

That is very sweet of your hubby to be worried about your welfare. I hope that your MRI results go well.

 

[cupcakekate]

sending you luck for your results xx

 

[littlesteph]

thank you ladies
although he doesn't always show it I know he cares a lot.
I am so grateful for the 2 we do have.