really confused and need help!!

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  1. RedRose19

    RedRose19 Expecting baby 3!

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    well im on cd 86!!! with no AF :( and i dont know why my body has suddenly decided not to work!!!

    i had a miscarriage in march, but i had a normal period in may and june.. but nothing since!!!

    ive done a test since and nothing! :cry: its very frustrating and confusing.
    i think maybe its low progesterone cuz im feeling like something hormonal aint right. i think if i can fix this then maybe AF would show and i can start ttc..

    any advise i would appreciate thanks xxx :flower:
     
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    tigs Well-Known Member

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    Ive seen ppl on here talking about using angus cactus... apparently it helps with balancing hormones.

    Somewhere I read about a 49 day long cycle - being reduced to 26... If I had read it earlier this month I would have given it a try.

    Do you normally have regular periods (If you do, I would contact my GP)
     
  3. RedRose19

    RedRose19 Expecting baby 3!

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    hiya thanks, you know thats so weird u saying that becuz my mom suggested the same thing.. ive started that since yesterday.. no changes yet but its early yet.. its dong quai and agnus castus,

    usually i have cycles like 28/30 days the most it wud be is 35 with stress...

    im feeling very.. un sure this will work only cuz ive been waiting for ages for AF to show.. i wish she wud show in time to get a september bfp.. but i think its abit late now.. :dohh:
     
  4. SarahMelissa

    SarahMelissa Maxy & Benny's Mummy

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    do you temp?? Might be easier to see what is going on if i could see your chart
     
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    RedRose19 Expecting baby 3!

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    well no.. i havent started charting cuz my cd is going crazy lol i dont even know if i ovulated cuz of such a long CD... i just want AF to come.. any tricks to make her hurry up!
     
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    I have very long cycles sometimes. I have heard that it is possible to "skip a cycle" which I think is maybe what happened to you. Are you under more stress than usual?
     
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    RedRose19 Expecting baby 3!

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    yeah well.. im starting back at uni next week.. but this might sound weird but this week i have lots of preggy symptoms.. but i cant be cuz i took a test at like a month late... and it was negative

    can u skip a cycle without getting AF and go on to ovulate for the next cycle.. if that makes sense??

    the symptoms i have are: sore bbs, tired all the time, dizzy, feeling sick and obviously very late af lol
     
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    Minerva Well-Known Member

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    Hmmm... I think you should take another test to rule it out.
     
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    MsLesley Well-Known Member

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    yes...i have been on here for awhile and i have heard some women getting pregnant after a long cycle before af arriving. it is possible ;)

    those symptoms can be from pregnancy, af coming along or maybe some other underlining problem.

    have you spoke to your doctor about this?
     
  10. tonyamanda

    tonyamanda 3rd trimester

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    hun you need to see a doctor.. my doctor has ordered a estrogen and progesterone test.. ill have the results tomorrow just to see what my hormones are doing..
     
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    starrilicious First time mommy

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    You're not alone I had a MC in May and havent seen AF since. I've asked for a blood test and then gonna see what the docs say. I'm sick of waiting.

    :hugs:

    Hope something happens for you soon!
     
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    RedRose19 Expecting baby 3!

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    aww thanks ladies, i would go to my doctor but there never helpful.. well not in my area it took them 8 weeks to diagose me with allergies last year, i was being sick real bad ugh!

    im moving to the city next week so im hoping to get a better doctor.. i was thinking ill wait till then and see if AF comes if not then go get tested..

    i talked to a herbalist and she thinks im low on progesterone.. so im taking some herbal things for it at the moment.. i hope its enough to kick start my cycle back to normal..

    i think i will test next week.. just to make sure

    its just so frustrating waiting for AF to show :(
     
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    RedRose19 Expecting baby 3!

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    ok i have some bad pains now.... :shock: but no AF... im not sure what to think about it.. i have really bad lower back pain too :(
     

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