really dunno what to do :/ advice please

[chloe18.]

hiia, im really stuck nd honestly dunno what to do....:'(
I'm 18, and i got a son that is 11 weeks old. i found out today that im pregnant (as the condom split) my family will most probz go mad. i really want a little girl so im afraid that it could be a girl. i wouldnt mind another baby as i love being a mammy but im afraid of what my family will think of me...i would appreciate it if anyone could leave some advice xxxx

 

[Eternal]

awwww hun, if your happy then dont worry! there are a lot of ladies who get pregnant quickly after their first. if anyone says anythingf say that you want them to be good friends and you might as well get your sleepless nights over with all at once.

Good luck hun xxx

 

[Sam9kids]

if you are happy, then sod what everyone else thinks!

 

[chloe18.]

i know my fiancee has to do wat i want nd sod wat everyone else thinks, thanks so much xx

 

[Snitsel]

First of all congratulations... and dont worry about what people will think they will get used to the idea.. of course they will be shocked at first but they will come around when they see its what u want.. at least u will have them close together and they will be the best of friends.. how exciting

 

[WW1]

Agree with the others - if you're happy then the views of everyone else are irrelevant!

My cousin had 2 children within a year (1st at 16 years old, 2nd at 17). She took lots of hassle at the time from everyone who seemed to have an opinion. Both her children are teenagers now and fab!! They are incredibly close and supportive of eachother.

I hope everything turns out the way you want it to

 

[chloe18.]

thank you, and i just noticed i wrote my last post wrong, i ment to say that my fiancee sed for me to do wat i want lol, thank you all xx

 

[loverguts]

aww, congrats! dont worry about anyone elses opinions, im sure the majority of people will be super happy for you! my mum got pregnant with me just a couple of months after having my brother and it was sooo nice to grow up with someone whos practically the same age as me xx

 

[iceylou]

hell to what ppl will say. congrats. i wish i had my 2 together, my son is 12 and lo is 5 wks.