mumof2girls
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Hi,
I have a 6 month old dd, a 4 year old dd (Grace), and 8 year old step son(jack) and 14 year old step daughter(jasmine).
Jasmine has been a total nightmare for the past 2 years, me and my husband have been together for 3 years and married for one and living together for 18 months. Things used to be really good with Jasmine and now its awful, I darent even speak in my own house half the time or even feel like I should be there. All she does is lie and steal constantly..... she has even stolen my knickers!!! She steals money all the time, she called me and her dad "a joke", she wont come home on time, is horrible to her brother but not to my dd (her step sister). She is cheeky, rude, selfish and I cant take anymore..... I and my husband have seriously tried everything we possibly can to make her happy. The girl has everything..... tv, ps2, computer in her room, stereo u name it shes got it! We have tried the usual taking away priviledges, grounding, talking, shouting NOTHING WORKS WITH THIS GIRL! Its coming to a point where I think my marriage will end because of her. We are currently going to therapy with her and even the therapists say our family is very happy and they love the way we interact with our kids and that the only child that seems unhappy is Jasmine..... the worst of it is when she behaves like this she never says sorry because she isnt sorry in the slightest and no matter what you say it doesnt bother her. She has had no contact with her bio mum due to mum being violent etc but for the past 6 years her dad has been there for her and although she has been through a lot it is not an excuse for this behaviour.
Jack has now also started lying and constantly hits my 4 year old daughter, and sometimes really scares her. My Grace is no angel by any means she is cheeky and sometimes tells the odd lie but nothing compared to the other two. I get on well with Jack and can handle his behaviour but I dont know what to do about Jasmine.... both me and my husband are at a complete loss with it all. Please someone give me some advice on what I can do before I walk away from it.... I dont want to do that as their mum did that and I dont want to be there mum if they dont want me to I just want them to be happy and have a good life! xxx
I have a 6 month old dd, a 4 year old dd (Grace), and 8 year old step son(jack) and 14 year old step daughter(jasmine).
Jasmine has been a total nightmare for the past 2 years, me and my husband have been together for 3 years and married for one and living together for 18 months. Things used to be really good with Jasmine and now its awful, I darent even speak in my own house half the time or even feel like I should be there. All she does is lie and steal constantly..... she has even stolen my knickers!!! She steals money all the time, she called me and her dad "a joke", she wont come home on time, is horrible to her brother but not to my dd (her step sister). She is cheeky, rude, selfish and I cant take anymore..... I and my husband have seriously tried everything we possibly can to make her happy. The girl has everything..... tv, ps2, computer in her room, stereo u name it shes got it! We have tried the usual taking away priviledges, grounding, talking, shouting NOTHING WORKS WITH THIS GIRL! Its coming to a point where I think my marriage will end because of her. We are currently going to therapy with her and even the therapists say our family is very happy and they love the way we interact with our kids and that the only child that seems unhappy is Jasmine..... the worst of it is when she behaves like this she never says sorry because she isnt sorry in the slightest and no matter what you say it doesnt bother her. She has had no contact with her bio mum due to mum being violent etc but for the past 6 years her dad has been there for her and although she has been through a lot it is not an excuse for this behaviour.
Jack has now also started lying and constantly hits my 4 year old daughter, and sometimes really scares her. My Grace is no angel by any means she is cheeky and sometimes tells the odd lie but nothing compared to the other two. I get on well with Jack and can handle his behaviour but I dont know what to do about Jasmine.... both me and my husband are at a complete loss with it all. Please someone give me some advice on what I can do before I walk away from it.... I dont want to do that as their mum did that and I dont want to be there mum if they dont want me to I just want them to be happy and have a good life! xxx