Really need some advice on ttc

[tkeith8109]

My husband and I have 2 really awesome kids. We have been ttc for the past 3 months and had a cp last month. I want another baby do bad sometimes it hurts. However the other night we were enrolling the kids in sports and I couldn't help but think that if we have another our 2 won't be able to do as much. I want to give my kids everything I didn't have and I feel like having a 3rd will somehow ruin that. Our kids really want a sibling but how do we know it's the right thing for them? If we keep it at 2 we will buy a house and both cars quicker and be able to do more for our kids. But I really want another child to love. I have not 2nd guessed this in months so idk why I am now. I don't want to make life about cars houses and vacations, but I do want to be able to do stuff for our family. Anyone else feel like this? Is it cold feet? Is it a sign that we shouldn't have another? I just need advice.

 

[Cppeace]

Only you can make this choice, but I feel that where there is a will there is a way. Have all the kids you like and plan, save and find ways to still do what you wish and the things for your two kiddos. My mother had 3 and we never really suffered.

 

[tkeith8109]

I think I was just having a hormonal moment last night. I can thank the progesterone for that lol. I woke up today feeling that need for another child again like i have been for the past 6 months. Thanks for your advice. I know I'm over thinking and worrying about this. People have 6 kids and make it work.

 

[hmcx]

This is my husbands issue.

He thinks that everything will be more of a struggle, we only have the 1 she's 6.

And although I worry too, i know that in 10 years I wouldn't regret having another child but I'd probably regret not having one!

 

[ricschick]

you will make it work and tbo you will find no3 just fits in. we have 5 children and they don't go without and they love having brother and sisters.