DH has usually been quite good so far, but today he's really upset me. I've got a really bad cold and sore throat etc and haven't slept for 2 nights (can never sleep when I'm ill ) At lunchtime today I felt so ill, I actually started crying. DH started shouting at me and saying it was the same as him having a cold and I needed to man up. This made me worse, so I started coughing loads and then was sick. He then stormed off and said I didn't deserve any sympathy cause I went to work yesterday. I only went in, cause I woke up with the cold and thought I'd see how I went. If this gets worse, I'll need to take time off later when I'm even worse. I work in a school and it's not easy just to be off.... He's not speaking to me now. I feel so ill and miserable. Sorry to winge. I hate feeling like this and not being able to take anything. Don't understand why he has to shout at me and make it worse.