BlueWater
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How do you handle when someone else is pregnant and you're not?
A colleague at work is pregnant - 6 weeks - while I'm happy for her, it's all I hear her talk about. And I can't avoid her, as I work directly in a team with her. It was her first month of trying.
It's making me want to have a baby so bad - but we can't force it to happen for us. We're going on 2 years or so of trying.
I'm beginning to feel some resentment against this colleague, because she got pregnant so quick and I haven't. But deep inside I feel sad, sad that it's not happening to me. I feel confused too. And a bit hopeless.
How do I handle my colleague being pregnant when I'm not?
A colleague at work is pregnant - 6 weeks - while I'm happy for her, it's all I hear her talk about. And I can't avoid her, as I work directly in a team with her. It was her first month of trying.
It's making me want to have a baby so bad - but we can't force it to happen for us. We're going on 2 years or so of trying.
I'm beginning to feel some resentment against this colleague, because she got pregnant so quick and I haven't. But deep inside I feel sad, sad that it's not happening to me. I feel confused too. And a bit hopeless.
How do I handle my colleague being pregnant when I'm not?