Saying goodbye to our little one...

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  1. Hope85

    Hope85 Well-Known Member

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    After a long week of not knowing if our little one was ok, i woke with a little bleeding this morning, went in for our scan and found that our baby which is meant to 9 weeks now is still at 6 weeks with no heart beat just like last weeks scan. I think i had started greiving last week, and now i just want it to all be over so my partner and i can move on for a few months and then begin again. I am booked in friday afternoon for a d&c, i'm a little scared of how i will feel afterwards...
    Thankyou for everones comments on my last couple of posts during the last week.
     
  2. OliveMartini

    OliveMartini Well-Known Member

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    I'm sorry for your loss hun :hugs:

    Hope to see you back here soon x
     
  3. threebirds

    threebirds Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: xxx thinking of you x
     
  4. thelistkeeper

    thelistkeeper Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss hon...:hugs:
     
  5. Abzandbump

    Abzandbump Well-Known Member

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    sorry for your lose xx
     
  6. Mrs_X

    Mrs_X New Mummy :)

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    sorry for your loss
    xxx
     
  7. Narla83

    Narla83 Mum of 3 & pregnant

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    Oh hunni, Im so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself :hugs:
     
  8. Embo78

    Embo78 Mum of five

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    So sorry for your loss. Missed miscarriages are particularly difficult.
    I had ERPC's after my mmc's and it was the best thing for me. I said goodbye at the hospital and then tried to heal physically and mentally afterwards.
    If ever you want to vent you can pm me any time.

    Sending big :hugs: at this difficult time :hugs:
     
  9. Cuffy

    Cuffy Mum to 1 Expecting Twins

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    So sorry sweetie. Big hugs x
     
  10. rosequartz

    rosequartz Pregnant with 1st Baby

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    So sorry for your loss hun :( Take care :hugs:
     
  11. hopeforamirac

    hopeforamirac Well-Known Member

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    so sorry for your loss :hugs:
     
  12. mummykcc

    mummykcc Well-Known Member

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    I'm really sorry for your loss :( xx
     
  13. loves_eeyore

    loves_eeyore Guest

    So sorry for ur loss, take care x
     
  14. lucyb

    lucyb Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: I'm so sorry to read that. Please take care of yourself.
     
  15. BlaireUK

    BlaireUK Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. I hope you can grieve and move forward in the next few months. X
     
  16. padbrat

    padbrat My Rainbow is Born x

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    Hope I am so sorry to hear this. My last loss was a missed miscarriage too and in a way it is more of a mental blow as all seems well, but inside your LO has already gone.

    I have had a D&C for 2 of my losses and there is nothing to be worried about. You may have a little bleeding after, but you will physically heal quicker than a natural M/C.

    Nothing we can say will help how you feel. ((hugs))
     
  17. Speccy

    Speccy New mummy to Matilda

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    So very sorry :hugs:
     
  18. christinajosl

    christinajosl Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss :cry:
     
  19. Tomo

    Tomo Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so hard at the moment, but you will get through this. x
     
  20. chobette

    chobette Mom to 2

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    Sorry for your loss:hugs:
     

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