mazndave
Mummy of 1 + bump!
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I have a 14 month old son who I love to bits, but before we had our 20 week scan I'd wanted a girl. I KNEW in my heart it was a boy, but it didn't stop me from being upset when I found out. I soon came round though, and I wouldn't change him for the world now he's here and such a fantastic little boy.
I've just found out I'm expecting again, and this time it wasn't planned. We weren't going to start trying until late 2014 and we were planning on trying gender swaying to try and influence getting a girl. I'm now convinced that because fate has stepped in, it's definitely going to be another boy. I know once he's here I'll love him just as much as I do my son, but I know when the sonographer says boy I'll be absolutely crushed. This will probably be our last child, and the thought of never being able to pick out girlie outfits, style my daughters hair, take her to ballet lessons and help her pick a wedding dress, absolutely devastates me. 'A daughter is yours for life, a son is yours until he takes a wife'. At the age of 30 I'm still close to my mum and spend the day with her etc, my husband wouldn't do this with his mum. I want to be able to have that relationship with a daughter.
I've said to my mum before that I don't think I'll ever have a girl, and she says I'm silly - I don't know what I'll have and there's as much chance of having a girl as there is a boy. I know this is statistically correct, but I just know in my heart I'll never get my girl.....
I've just found out I'm expecting again, and this time it wasn't planned. We weren't going to start trying until late 2014 and we were planning on trying gender swaying to try and influence getting a girl. I'm now convinced that because fate has stepped in, it's definitely going to be another boy. I know once he's here I'll love him just as much as I do my son, but I know when the sonographer says boy I'll be absolutely crushed. This will probably be our last child, and the thought of never being able to pick out girlie outfits, style my daughters hair, take her to ballet lessons and help her pick a wedding dress, absolutely devastates me. 'A daughter is yours for life, a son is yours until he takes a wife'. At the age of 30 I'm still close to my mum and spend the day with her etc, my husband wouldn't do this with his mum. I want to be able to have that relationship with a daughter.
I've said to my mum before that I don't think I'll ever have a girl, and she says I'm silly - I don't know what I'll have and there's as much chance of having a girl as there is a boy. I know this is statistically correct, but I just know in my heart I'll never get my girl.....