well ladies, i'm scared to death to be posting here but we just got the dreaded news our baby boy is most likely not going to survive... I had a missed miscarriage one month before I fell pregnant with this little guy! I have been soooo stressed...they ruled out trisomy and downs and turners....now they said that he has a hole in the back of his head and fluid all around him after my NT scan....the fluid is making his little body swell...now i'm in the waiting game...I have soo many questions and am hoping someone can tell me what to expect...how do they do a loss this far in??? i'm terrified I will have to have a c section as I did with my first son 1.5 years ago...will this affect future pregnancies...? I dont' want to go through a c section again, esp if I can't have a baby at the end...i'm soo sad, mad, angry...hurt, numb....and sorry for the rant, I have no one to go to at this point as they keep telling me to "keep the hope" though three different docs and genetic specialists pretty much told me he won't survive....