Aloha everyone! I just need understanding ears from all of you. I'm 32 years old. I m/c april '09 and sept '09. Both were at 5.5 weeks but insanely sad for me and my husband. The first took place the week before mothers day and my wedding shower. I thought the first was a fluke and surely my 2nd bean would stick- but no. We have not tried since then. I've ignored it because I'm scared. Will we lose another? What will it feel like to worry horribly again every moment of a new pregnancy? I didn't even want to DTD for a long time after. Now I can't ignore my utter desire to be a mommy- so I'm ready to start again but I need any and all advice or stories you can share. Friends and family are well meaning- but telling me "it'll happen- so and so had 5 m/c and now have a baby" does not help in the slightest. Still looking at friends u/s makes me sad and a bit angry. My only positive from these experiences is that I can empathize with others who have had a loss. But now I need encouragement. Ladies- got anything to share?