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[geordiemammy]

i had a horrible miscarriage in dec 2011 in which i nearly died i found out i was pregnant on saturday and started bleeding sunday hcg levels suggest baby is ok but im so stressed about what happened last time i cant relax has anyone else had a similar experience with a good outcome

 

[JessieJames]

Hi!

I'm so sorry for the terrible time you had!

I had an MMC and an ERPC in December 2011 - on xmas eve! It was sad as we had planned to tell everyone on Xmas day!

I got my first BFP this morning after 5 months of trying and I thought I would feel relieved but I still feel so worried.

It can't be healthy to feel like this either - vicious cycle!! I have no advice at all because I really don't think there is any but all I can say is good luck and I share your worry x

 

[geordiemammy]

when we found out this time my partner is really happy and wondered why i wasnt dont think men quite understand that we are happy but the worry over shadows that

 

[Yam87]

I am nearly 7 weeks and had some bleeding about 1 week and a half ago. And I don't mean spotting, it was bright red. Luckily it stopped quickly and there wasn't a lot. I had an urgent blood test that day - hcg was still looking good. I had an ultrasound two days later and ultrasound showed a 2.8 mm grain of rice with a heartbeat. It measured 6 days behind where I guessed I was, so that worried me but I have another ultrasound next week so hopefully the growth has been good.

I can't stop stressing about this pregnancy, so we are in the same boat. I feel like I will never have a good outcome but I'm trying to be positive. Makes me angry when people tell me that I shouldn't stress or it will harm the baby, I challenge them to have their heart ripped out and try and relax with a new pregnancy.

All we can do is wait and see and it's painful. Will your dr send you for an early scan geordiemammy? All the best xx

 

[geordiemammy]

I am nearly 7 weeks and had some bleeding about 1 week and a half ago. And I don't mean spotting, it was bright red. Luckily it stopped quickly and there wasn't a lot. I had an urgent blood test that day - hcg was still looking good. I had an ultrasound two days later and ultrasound showed a 2.8 mm grain of rice with a heartbeat. It measured 6 days behind where I guessed I was, so that worried me but I have another ultrasound next week so hopefully the growth has been good.

I can't stop stressing about this pregnancy, so we are in the same boat. I feel like I will never have a good outcome but I'm trying to be positive. Makes me angry when people tell me that I shouldn't stress or it will harm the baby, I challenge them to have their heart ripped out and try and relax with a new pregnancy.

All we can do is wait and see and it's painful. Will your dr send you for an early scan geordiemammy? All the best xx

got a scan next tuesday the waiting is killin me its a nightmare i wont settle til im holding him or her in my arms x