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Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by Lizzie Lou, Oct 7, 2008.

  1. Lizzie Lou

    Lizzie Lou Well-Known Member

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    I'm so worried - there was a little bit of pink blood last night on the toilet paper :cry: There's been nothing since and I haven't had cramps or anything but it feels vaguely like I'm getting my period. I had a missed m/c earlier this year and they said it would have happened at around 6wks (which is where I am now) so I can't stop thinking that the same thing is happening again :cry:
    Going to the doctors this afternoon but I know they won't do anything yet...I'm just so scared....
     
  2. moomoo

    moomoo Mumma to 2 & 1 in heaven!

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    im having the same thing all though i'm bleeding heavily, they have made me wait 4 days for a scan!! :hissy:
     
  3. beancounter

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    how far along are you? a little bit of spotting like you have is quite common, and period type pains- I still get them from stretching, though not full on cramping. When you have some blood you tend to focus on the area and be super aware of every little pain there, so try not to worry. Try and take it easy and see what the Dr has to say :hugs:
     
  4. Cariad_bach

    Cariad_bach mum to 2 boys and 2 girls

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    Hope its nothing to worry about hun....good luck at the docs xxx
     
  5. danni2609

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    If you are very early on can be inplantation bleed!
     
  6. xXDonnaXx

    xXDonnaXx Well-Known Member

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    Don't worry hunni,think positive. :hugs: ;)

    You're not having cramps,and no red blood,or clots.So you should be fine.

    x x x
     
  7. sam05

    sam05 waiting for #2!!!

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    Good luck. :hug:
     
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    Good luck at the docs :hug:x
     
  9. mz_jackie86

    mz_jackie86 Well-Known Member

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    Hey hun i had the same and went in for a can everything was fine just some people bleed in the first tri!
    Try nt to worry if it gets worse n u start crampin then go docs/hosp!!! x
     
  10. sam76

    sam76 Mummy to George & Louie

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    try not to worry xxxxxxxxxxx rest too
     
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    ajarvis Well-Known Member

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    I hope it turns out well for you! It doesn't mean miscarriage for sure! Just this past weekend I had small cramping and spotting all weekend - everything is fine though.

    Good Luck!
     
  12. Lizzie Lou

    Lizzie Lou Well-Known Member

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    Thanks everyone. Doctor says it's 70% likely that I'm going to miscarry because I feel like I'm getting my period :cry: We've got a scan tomorrow at the EPU but she said that as I'm only 6 + 3 they may not be able to tell for sure. I really hope they can as I just can't stand this and I really really don't want to have another D&C. Thanks for all your support xxx
     
  13. juliespencer9

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    let us know how you get on tommorow lizzy lou, im having the same prob at the mo, just started a threat on it. hope you are fine x
     
  14. Lizzie Lou

    Lizzie Lou Well-Known Member

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    Thanks, I don't think it's going to be good news - I kind of "new" last time that things weren't right and I don't have a good feeling about this one either. Think we're going to leave trying again for a while though as just can't face it happening again so quickly.

    I really am hoping and praying that everything turns out ok for you Julie - keep us updated and big :hug: to you
     
  15. juliespencer9

    juliespencer9 Well-Known Member

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    cheers, i hope you are wrong with your feelings and hopefully all is fine, but try and rest, i had m/c in aug and know what you mean when you say you "just know"

    all the best x
     
  16. Gemma Lou

    Gemma Lou Well-Known Member

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    Keeping everything crossed for you. Thinking of you x
     
  17. happyfamily123

    happyfamily123 Expecting Baby #3

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    I'm sorry hun. I had a m/c and had spotted a few days ago afte bd and I know how just the thought of it can send you spinning. I really hope it ends up ok for you! I totally understand not even wanting to get back into it if it happens again, that's where I was at. Good luck.
     
  18. You're in our thoughts and prayers. :hugs:
     
  19. Lizzie Lou

    Lizzie Lou Well-Known Member

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    Well, we had a scan today but we're no further to knowing whether or not I'm going to mc or not as they said it was too small to tell. They reckon I could be at the 5wk stage and the baby will carry on growing or I could be 6wks and it stopped at 5 but either way they won't know for another 2wks when I get another scan :hissy: :hissy: I feel like my life's on hold now but at least it wasn't all bad news but it scares me that they've given me some hope and it will just be the same when we go back!!
     
  20. juliespencer9

    juliespencer9 Well-Known Member

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    lizzie lou, that wait is awful thats what i had to do in aug, do your boobs still feel tender or have they stopped?
     

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