teevee
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I was always the independent type. I was with DH for 10 years before we decided to marry, and that pace was 100% acceptable to me because I was young, in school, then working, and still figuring stuff out. During my "dating" years I never once felt "baby fever" or my "biological clock" ticking or anything like that. But the last year, year and a half or so, I'm noticing that change! Every friend, family member, or even acquaintance that has a baby, I feel a slight yearning for myself to be in that position. It totally caught me by surprise because it's nothing that's ever been in the forefront of my mind all these years being with DH!
DH and I are on the same page about waiting till Dec of this year or possibly early January '16 to TTC, but it's getting harder and harder to not express that I have baby fever RIGHT NOW! Intellectually, I'm totally fine with waiting until the end of the year because we both agreed that it's the best time for us for a variety of reasons, but emotionally/physically that wait is getting harder and harder! And I feel odd expressing that to my family/friends because I was always the one who was totally fine with pushing off TTC as long as possible!
Aaaah! Just wondering if anyone has felt an abrupt change of feelings on this and how you're dealing with it?
DH and I are on the same page about waiting till Dec of this year or possibly early January '16 to TTC, but it's getting harder and harder to not express that I have baby fever RIGHT NOW! Intellectually, I'm totally fine with waiting until the end of the year because we both agreed that it's the best time for us for a variety of reasons, but emotionally/physically that wait is getting harder and harder! And I feel odd expressing that to my family/friends because I was always the one who was totally fine with pushing off TTC as long as possible!
Aaaah! Just wondering if anyone has felt an abrupt change of feelings on this and how you're dealing with it?