Semen Sample Help :)

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  1. silvereyes44

    silvereyes44 Active Member

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    So my husband needs to provide a sample and hes how shall I say "having anxiety issues" and cannot seem to produce. S. cannot use lube and she suggested not having sex and then withdrawing. Do you ladies have any suggestions. This is killing me as I am not ovulating and she won't start treating me until my husband does his business. I am trying not to put pressure on him but come on:wacko:
     
  2. Pocketrocket

    Pocketrocket Well-Known Member

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    My hubby had to do one a few year back as we'd been trying for over a year. My tests were fine. He shut himself away and he said it felt do forced. the result weren't good either but the same day he had to produce a second sample I found out I was pregnant. Turned out they left he sample to long before testing. Maybe help him so it doesn't feel so forced. good luck xx
     
  3. tigerlilly

    tigerlilly Blessed with no.2!

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    you could give him a helping hand! if he will let you, a sort of fore play with out the best bit? we find out our SA results next week.
     
  4. messymommy

    messymommy Well-Known Member

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    My DH & I shut ourselves into a room at the lab and I wore sexy bra & undies for him. I gave him a "helping hand" and kinda made out with him. I don't know if he'd have really had a problem just handling his business alone though as he's pretty free spirited about things like that. He's a truck driver and used to be over the road for over a week at a time so ya know, LOL.
     
  5. Angel baby

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    My DH and I went to a empty parking lot close to the clinic and he brought porn and did his business in the back seat! Hahaha! It worked and I was glad! As long as his specimen was in within a hour we were good. He will have to do it again in a couple of weeks for IUI so I don't know if it will be the same scenario.
     
  6. Smiler82

    Smiler82 Well-Known Member

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    Yeah as long as you can get it to the lab under an hour, could you do something at home, book a hotel room?? I know it sounds a bit extravagant!! I wanted to do this though, my DH had the worst experience ever. He turned up to the hospital and he asked where he could go to 'create' his sample, and they told him the TOILET. He was mortified. He said it was the worst thing ever, trying to do that whilst hearing other men use the urinals, and worrying that there'd be a queue for the cubicle, as there was only one and he was in it for half an hour. He managed, but the count came back low. We read that if he's not excited enough then that can result in a poor sample. Unfortunately for him, he had to do it again, (thankfully the result this time was fine) we were so disgusted with the hospital. We complained of course and thankfully they've sorted something else out now.

    But because it was so horrid for him I was all up for booking a hotel room near the hospital and helping him out ;) Could you do something like that?

    Hope it gets sorted xx
     

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