Sex after MMC???

[Shanski]

Hello Ladies!
Its been 3 weeks since I was told that I was miscarrying. Its been a long 3 weeks but I am starting to feel a little better emotionally (it was not planned but its been so awful still ). My doctor wants me to wait for 2 regular periods before we decide if we're going to try or wait, and I understand why. But can I have protected sex??? I haven't been bleeding for about 3 days now (a little spotting on day 1 but going on 2 days with absolutely nothing) and physically feel well. I will be getting blood work and speaking to my doctor early next week to make sure my hormone levels are back to normal (last check was 2 weeks ago and under 100). I just feel sex will be therapeutic for my fiance and myself after going through this whole process. Thanks!

 

[dairymomma]

My DH and I waited until I was completely done bleeding before getting intimate again. That's what my doctor said to do. And yes, protected sex should be okay but if you have any questions, then call your doctor and ask.

 

[lhancock90]

I waited until the bleeding stopped x

 

[mae71809]

I was still lightly bleeding (spotting maybe) when I had sex. It was maybe 5 days after I passed my little one. We took it slow and I didn't let my husband go very deep because my cervix felt sore. It was therapeutic. We didn't use protection but he did pull out.

 

[Chris77]

You can have protected sex, sure. As long as you are feeling up to it. I didn't have sex with DH until after my bleeding stopped so about a week after my D&C.

I'm sorry for your loss hun.