Well girls, sorry to be so bloody blunt. Me and OH have just been having a conversation. My friend had her sweep the other week and said the midwife was feeling the baby's head while she was up there. I saw Danny's face when I told him this and now he is quite legitimately frightened of doing the deed. He is convinced he will hurt his son. So my really naive question is if a midwife can get her fingers to touch the baby's head how come sex is safe?! It got me thinking too, I just try and convince him so he can do it but the poor blighter is understandably disturbed!! And girls, I'm not boasting here..... I just want this baby out!! Thanks ladies.