sex drive

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  1. cymrufaerie

    cymrufaerie Well-Known Member

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    how's pregnancy affected yours? mine's gone through the roof since i got pregnant which sometimes makes things awkward, especially if i'm feeling particularly horny and he's moving at the same time.
     
  2. baby.love

    baby.love Guest

    My sex drive went into reverse very early on :lol: I have told my OH the only time i want sex is when i hit 37 weeks and we can try encouraging Freya out :rofl: The poor man! But he is great and doesnt mind x
     
  3. hopefulfor09

    hopefulfor09 Well-Known Member

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    I am still early days but I am turned off sex...in fact I am turned of men period. They smell. LOL. I am sure it will pass. Poor DH. But I am having really dirty dreams. LOL.
     
  4. milena_woking

    milena_woking Well-Known Member

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    I am not up to it.... poor hubby understands it but i feel sorry for him..
    but... from next week he'll get as much sex as he wish.. i will do anything to get the baby out:blush:
     
  5. Mummy~L

    Mummy~L Mummy to 2

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    Mine has completely vanished!

    If anyone spots it please tell it to come home, Thanks! :rofl:
     
  6. Nic1107

    Nic1107 Mommy to a toddler

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    Mine is pretty low lately but then hits at weird times... I actually woke up my husband at about 1 am two nights ago (sorry TMI! lol) even though he had to leave for work in a couple hours! :rofl:
     
  7. Maffie

    Maffie Guest

    Its gone into hiding, occasionally comes back but im not myself I must say. Ditto on the doing it lots after 37 weeks!
     
  8. littlekitten8

    littlekitten8 Mummy of 1

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    I had a really high sex drive before I got pregnant....poor OH has gone from 4 times a day....to none at all in 1st trimester...to about 3 times a week now lol. Ditto on the lots of sex after 36 weeks to encourage James out hehe.
     
  9. Kte

    Kte Mummy to Chloe & Sophie

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    I have randomly stayed the same, the issue freaks out OH, he does try but sometimes the bump or the thought of LO in there is a bit off putting for him, so I think I just go it in my head early on anything is a bonus! lol
     
  10. Wombat

    Wombat Married mum of 2:)

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    Well, I am just not interested... I don' tthink it is particulary because I am pregnant but more to do with being in terrible pain all the time and not having enough sleep + running after a toddler...

    But Ill make sure there will be plenty of it around 38 weeks:winkwink:
     
  11. curlykate

    curlykate Devin's Mommy

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    My sex drive dropped quite a bit when I found out I'm pregnant. We went from me wanting it more, to him wanting it more!
    I'm really hoping it picks up again after the first tri.
     
  12. Jchihuahua

    Jchihuahua Mummy to 3

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    Mine has dropped, a lot!
     
  13. twinklestar

    twinklestar 2 boys nd 2 girls

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    mine went completly untill 2 days ago and now i cant stop thinking about jumping him at every possible moment :rofl:
     
  14. nfm3

    nfm3 Well-Known Member

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    Mine physically increased but mentally I am so uncomfortable i don't want to be bothered. I can tell my body is really sensitive and it would be really good but i don't want to go through the motions. Weird.
     
  15. sw2129

    sw2129 Well-Known Member

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    Mine has gone!!! My poor OH

    He is very understanding tho, he will ask only once a day now if i scowl at him then he knows to leave me alone lol:haha:
     
  16. Seity

    Seity Mom to Gabriel and Samuel

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    Mine has definitely gone up as well. Too bad I don't get it more to go with. I'll survive though.
     
  17. Rachaela

    Rachaela Well-Known Member

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    Lol I'm the same mines gone through the roof, my oh is wondering whats up with me, however when we do have sex I just feel guilty all the time that i might be hurting baby or something. Silly really
     
  18. milena_woking

    milena_woking Well-Known Member

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    Rachaela it shouldn't hurt the baby and as long as u r up for it and ur MW says it's OK you can enjoy it :)
     
  19. Henrica80

    Henrica80 Mom to Noelle

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    Mine has gone as well, poor DH..... but i do give in sometimes but it hurts so badddddddddddd.....
     
  20. milena_woking

    milena_woking Well-Known Member

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    Yep but only when DH is so desperate for it lol, for me it dosen't hurt more like so uncomfortable as i don't feel wet enough down there lol..
     

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