sex

[Mummy to be x]

Hi ladies, so the question is in the title really lol, I have not seen my OH for 4 months now and he is back next saturday, I found out the day before he left to go away that i was pregnant so obviously there has been no sex with him not been here. I was just wondering if everything will be ok to have sex at this stage after 4 months with out having it, will it be safe ?
Sorry if this may sound a bit of a dumb question but would just like to here any opinions etc
Thanks ladies
x

 

[vicky84]

i say if you've had no problems go for gold

 

[maybemum2be]

I think it will be fine- everything I read says so. We are VERY gentle now but only because my cervix bleeds if hit at all hard and that stresses me out. I don't think it would actually hurt the baby if we had sex like we used to.

Just do what you feel comfortable with- I think spoons is probably best! x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Well i have had no problems through out this pregnancy i have been very lucky to be fair So i guess i will just go for it! Thanks girls

 

[VictoriaElaur]

Go slow, Sex with my husband is quite painful. It may be worth while having some lubricant handy and that can do wonders if its painful.

Also don’t feel bad if you’re not in the mood. I'm never in the mood nowadays (my poor poor husband) and I really beat myself up over it..........

 

[Mummy to be x]

Go slow, Sex with my husband is quite painful. It may be worth while having some lubricant handy and that can do wonders if its painful.

Also don’t feel bad if you’re not in the mood. I'm never in the mood nowadays (my poor poor husband) and I really beat myself up over it..........

Im sure i will be in the mood after 4 months its been driving me crazy!!

 

[evewidow]

you will be fine , you may have to find a position thats comfortable or take it a bit more gentle/slower but all will be normal !

4 months without hubby wow , bet he will be amazed when he sees your bump lol !

 

[destinyfaith]

go for it .. if your not advised by the doc NOT to, then there is no reason why not x

 

[milamummy]

If ur doc or mw hasnt told you otherwise,and your lucky enough to be in the mood then go for your life luv lol

 

[Mummy to be x]

you will be fine , you may have to find a position thats comfortable or take it a bit more gentle/slower but all will be normal !

4 months without hubby wow , bet he will be amazed when he sees your bump lol !

Yeah or he may run a mile when he sees how much weight i have gained

 

[Mummy to be x]

thanks ladies, Nope i have not been told by the MW or doc to not have sex so i guess i will be fine

 

[tink28]

wow mummy 2 be see u are gettin married this month too? congrats!

 

[CaptainMummy]

I wish my midwife would tell me I couldnt have sex... Im never in the mood these days and OH constantly bugs me! Hehe, I know I shouldnt say that, but then he couldnt sweet talk me!!

 

[evewidow]

I wish my midwife would tell me I couldnt have sex... Im never in the mood these days and OH constantly bugs me! Hehe, I know I shouldnt say that, but then he couldnt sweet talk me!!

 

[brmipo]

I guess I'm a bit different than everyone else... I know it's TMI, but I can't get enough these days. I asked my doc about it and he said it was fine, even with me being overweight and having some blood pressure problems.

Go for it!

 

[Mummy to be x]

yeah tink i am getting married very very soon hehe
Thanks for your help ladies x