She wont let me near her :(

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  1. FEDup1981

    FEDup1981 Mam of two & two angels

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    Kate is 21 weeks, and for the past 3 days has not let me hold her at all. She just screams, arches her back, flings her arms and legs about. She wont let me give her a bottle. Ive managed to spoon feed her once.
    As soon as daddy picks her up shes fine. All smiles. She has had a moment or two with him, but nothing compared to what shes been like with me.

    Im calm, i talk to her, sing, bop her up and down, walk around, give her a bottle, dummy, but nothing but SCREAMS!!

    :cry::cry::cry: Im so upset. Getting out of doing a feed or two for her was a bonus, but im missing her so much. She lays in daddys arms touching his face while she coos away to him. She doesnt want me near her. So fed up :cry:
     
  2. iwanababybump

    iwanababybump Mum to Jamie- due inApril

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    :hugs: hope it gets better soon Hun x x x
     
  3. nicole_

    nicole_ Aidy's Mummy

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    my LO actually went through something similar to this a month or so ago. he wasnt screaming but he didnt really want anything to do with me lol
    i was getting pretty sad about it as hed be all screeching and happy when his dad came home
    he got over it after a week or so and now he loves me more again :haha:
     
  4. FEDup1981

    FEDup1981 Mam of two & two angels

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    Aww fingers crossed it wont last long then x
     
  5. milf2be

    milf2be Guest

    i think its just a phase hun. try not to get too stressed out about it because im sure they can sense it and itl make it worse. hope it sorts itself out soon x
     
  6. Jemma_x

    Jemma_x Mummy and Engaged

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    LO still goes through stages like this, its worse now he talks because he tells me to go away but when he was little and he only wanted daddy i was heartbroken. I just felt like i carried you for 8 months, i do most things for you and now you dont want me so i understand how you feel hun:hugs:
     

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