shit year!!!!

[peanut84]

sorry ladies not sure were to post this but wanted to talk and not sure who to talk to!!!

this year started of relly good with me and my sister in law finding out we was pregnant....

Then we found my husbands grandma was ill and she died in march shortly after that my best friends mum died i didnt no her that well but was felt so gutted for my friend..the year started to look better and in september my little girl was born and in october my niece was born....but then tragicly i lost a very good friend very suddenly and un expected this then also this month another friend lost his dad and my husband lost his uncle....

just feel this year cant get any worse...

i feel upset about the loss of everyone but the hardest is the death of my friend who i have not yet cried about don't no if its cause i cant accept it or it hasnt sunk in..i feel like if i cry then its all real and hes gone he was a very good friend and will miss him dearly and he wont get to see my little girl grow up..i suppose i just assumed he'd always be there...

sorry for the long post x

 

[Wriggley]

cant give any advice hun but wanted to send you a hug

 

[Pearl_vincent]

that's really quite upsetting , it's hard to lose someone u care and in succession . Indeed a shit year, shout it out, scream it all out Peanut it will help a little release those pent-up emotions, then think on the positive side , if something is taken then something is given back, there are two lovely newborns, something to look forward. Hope it will better next year! mg hugs for u dear!

 

[~Mummy~]

Sorry, hun. I hope it gets better for you.

 

[Ferret]

I know how you feel, my dad died in April when I was 20 weeks pregnant. I have by no means come to terms with it but all I can say is I'm trying to find the positive in whatever I can. I won't patronise you and say it gets better because 7 months on and I still feel like shit but I have realised you have to go with it, if your sad, cry if your angry shout. Just try not to bottle it up (easier said than done I know).
Wish you all the best.

 

[angel2010]

 

[happygirl666]

hugs my love is with you I dont know what ells to say my love blessed be.

 

[cabaretmum2b]