hello, i have just found out that i am pregnant for the first time. my husband and i just got married on june 16th and i am due on february 20th. we have been planning to move from new york to tennessee for about a year now, even before the wedding, and now we have found out that we are pregnant. we would both still really love to move and have already put down a deposit on our new home in tn. but now that the family is finding out we are pregnant, we are getting quite a rough time from all of them. some saying we shouldnt move because we wont have a "support system" when the baby is born, and some just hurt that they may not get to see the baby as much. but we are both just scared that if we do not move now before the baby is born, we will be "stuck" so to speak, and never move. and to me, there's nothing worse than raising my child here in new york. what do you ladies think? could is be that hard for us to raise the child in tennessee?!? my family is not even that close to me living in new york!!! the closest one is an hour away!! so i dont see that as a support system even if we do stay here! plus the fact that there are no jobs here!!