Should i?

Discussion in 'Single Parents' started by Jayden'sMummy, Oct 23, 2008.

  1. Jayden'sMummy

    Jayden'sMummy Jayden and Macie-Leigh xx

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    Get in contact with him for Jayden?

    Ever since that argument last week over me being with Ian and me telling Adam to leave coming down on Saturday he hasn't been in contact at all. He was supposed to pick him up at 6 and bring him back at 8 but he didn't show up, not even a phone call or text :hissy:

    I've been having a hard time lately because Jayden isn't sleeping at all at night so i am lucky to get about 2 hours a night for the last week but he sleeps fine through the day, i can't even sleep when he sleeps because i have always got something i need/have to get done :dohh: I wish Adam realized how hard it really is and that he should help me a little bit more :cry:

    Should i wait to see if he contacts me or should i contact him to see where things are at?
     
  2. lfc_sarah

    lfc_sarah Wife & mother of 1 boy

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    I wouldnt contact him if it was me

    If he was bothered he would contact you (as harsh at that sounds)
     
  3. Jayden'sMummy

    Jayden'sMummy Jayden and Macie-Leigh xx

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    thats what i was thinking x
     
  4. Blob

    Blob Sarah :)

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    I'm not sure i'd bother yet really!! Obv you want to stay in contact with him for Jayden but i dont think i'd want to ask him to help, he may be the dad but he's no father!! :hugs: I hope he starts sleeping soon hun!
     
  5. fairywings

    fairywings mum to Amy and Angel Ryan

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    I agree with the others, and if your baby is having a lot of sleep in the day then leave what needs doing and get some sleep too otherwise it will just catch up on you. What needs to be done can wait, your health is more important. x
     
  6. I wouldn't contact him either hun
     
  7. leeanne

    leeanne Mom of 3 and Stepmom of 2

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    I think you should wait until he makes the effort.
     
  8. cherylanne

    cherylanne Mum/first tri #2

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    I agree with the above hun, leave him be. He is more than likely waiting for you to make the first move and contact him first. Let him come to you and if he cares as much as he should for your lovely lil man, he will xx
     

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