Living arrangements: rental house
Age: 31
Length of relationship: married 7 yrs
Reasons for waiting: Not ready to give up my freedom yet! And I am a little freaked out about pregnancy since I have some medical problems...nothing serious, it would just be more uncomfortable for me than usual, and probably longer recovery time. Also worried about being able to take care of a baby/young kid, since I have my own physical challenges! Sadly, some days, I really just need to lie down all day.
I suppose I would figure it out, though.
Reasons for ttc: Afraid I'll regret it if I don't, and it is really important to OH (and the clock's ticking!). And I love hanging out with my nieces (when they are quiet and well behaved, lol!)...but also like giving them back and having quiet adult time! I keep flipping...one day I want to ttc (in the future, never NOW), and the next I am totally against it (usually when I am out having fun in the evening, or when I see a screaming kid!)! I am not a baby person, but I love older kids/teens. They are a blast.
Anyone else totally torn, and unable to make the leap to ttc, or am I just being moronic and indecisive? =P