*sigh* i'm so mad

[emalou90]

sorry its long.

fob has seen amelia 3 times in over a month now..
i understand its different for some people but this is too little for our situation!
ridiculous!!
he hasnt even rung this week to ask how she is.


he was ment to ring me one say to talk about finances and he didnt
i rang and he didnt answer, but he came on msn to say 'i cant be bothered to talk tonight i have a headache' do we agreed he'd ring the next day
did he??
no he certainly didnt, so i left it.
the day after he rung but didnt apologise for not ringing. so anyway we decided the finances and he said 'i'll put the money into your bank, if you give me the details'
but we agreed he'd ring back later because i was busy at that moment to go fetch them off the net.


he didnt ring later..
nor did he ring the day after.

something tells me he really doesnt want to be involved in this grown up situation.

please tell me you guys have been through something like this?

i dont want to be the one chasing him.. he made this decision and im not going to follow him like a lost puppy.

 

[emalou90]

Admin, could you move this to single parents please?

 

[Callie-xoxox]

I know how you feel!!!!
I am going through this too.
he tells me he is going to come see Lyrik
So I wait for him all day and then at like 8 he text me to say he cant come see her.
For now on I am filing for child support and he can come see her or not.
Its not your fault if he is not being in her life
You are a GREAT MOM and SINGLE MOM
and You can raise that baby girl better without his stressing you out.