single and pregnant

Discussion in 'Single Parents' started by twinmum2b, Apr 19, 2009.

  1. twinmum2b

    twinmum2b Member

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    Hi there! I am new to this site. I am currently 36 weeks pregnant with twins. My partner left me when i was 8 weeks pregnant when he realised i wasnt going to terminate!
     
  2. purpledahlia

    purpledahlia Mummy

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    aw dear, thats shocking! He will be missing out on so much! Im going to be a single mummy in December too, but not to twins! Do you have lots of support from family and friends??
     
  3. twinmum2b

    twinmum2b Member

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    Yeah i have heaps of support which i am going to need!! Is the father of your baby going to be involved?
     
  4. Mummytwice

    Mummytwice Active Member

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    :( You'll be ok hunny, This forum is great for chatting or even ranting lol.

    I hope your ok :hugs:

    X
     
  5. lissaloo

    lissaloo Well-Known Member

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    men are such shits arn't they !! good luck x
     
  6. xXDonnaXx

    xXDonnaXx Well-Known Member

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    Sound's like your better off without him! Loser!

    Good luck with the babies. :)

    xxxxxxx
     
  7. teen mummy

    teen mummy Amelias mummy

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    i dont understand men ther a totally different species
    but yer you do sound better off without him
    xxx
     
  8. edinsam

    edinsam Well-Known Member

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    hi there

    so sorry to hear about it. I am in the same situation. I'm 17 weeks now and he left 3 weeks ago because I wouldn't terminate and has actually gone back to his ex wife who he left 2 years ago!!!

    Hang on in there. I think I have gone through some of the darkest weeks of my life recently. I was in a really bad way. In reality I still am but nothing like what I was 3-4 weeks ago - I was manic.

    He wants absolutely nothing to do with the child, doesnt want to know about it, know when its born etc etc so I am just currently trying to pick up the pieces and face it alone. Its hard, I dont envy you that - especially with twins but I do hope that the saying "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" and I hope that I will come out of this a very strong person indeed. I don't underestimate how hard it is going to be though!

    Hang on in there - keep strong for those wee bambinos in there..

    Here to chat anytime

    Sam
    x
     
  9. xarlenex

    xarlenex Well-Known Member

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    Welcome! You and your babies will be far better off without a man who can't face up to his responsibilites in their lifes!

    Btw, I lovee your bump!! :lol:
     
  10. Donna79x

    Donna79x Mummy to Rihanna Paige x

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    Ladies, believe me your likle ones will keep you smiling forever, men - you can have that guarantee. Being a single mummy is challenging, but not as challenging as having a man around that cant face the responsibility of being a father, so your better off without.

    If I can cope, I'm sure everyone can xxx
     
  11. shaunanicole

    shaunanicole Guest

    Awe, TWINS! You are so blessed to have two little beans inside of you. I know that it is going to be hard but you can make it through. The day that I found out I was pregnant is the same day I found out the father of my baby was cheating on me. I left him in a hurry.

    Do you have any scan pics? If so you should share it with us! :)
     
  12. purpledahlia

    purpledahlia Mummy

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    im not sure if the father of the baby will be involved or not yet... im waiting to find out...
    p.s sorry took so long to reply!
     

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