single...and thats the way!

Discussion in 'Teen Pregnancy' started by graceS, Oct 19, 2008.

  1. graceS

    graceS first baby

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    The ex texted me this

    "grace i have been thinking and me, mum and dad dont want anything to do with you or the baby after this msg. The balls in your court if you keep it or not. The offer is still there for wednesday if you decide to get rid of it."

    (I has an appoitment for an abortion wednesday but i CANT do it)

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    My mum and his mum spoke....
    Made it clear they dont want anything to do with it.


    =[

    Boyssss....i hate them!
     
  2. Charlotte-j

    Charlotte-j Mum of 2.

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    what a prick.
    if u do keep it, im sure your be a great mum :)
    u dont need him :hugs:
     
  3. Pyrrhic

    Pyrrhic Well-Known Member

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    Morons.

    So he's man enough to do the deed, but not take responsibility for his actions.

    Well it's their loss when you're holding your gorgeous baby and watching it grow up. They're the ones losing out on a grandchild and child.
     
  4. graceS

    graceS first baby

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    I am keeping it!! Hes not bullying me to get rid of it nooo way!
    They will all change there minds seeing i can cope and they see me walking down the street.
    =]
    oh yer they also said i wont be able to cope!
    Im show them all wrong!!
     
  5. Jkelmum

    Jkelmum Well-Known Member

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    I was 14 when this happened to me then again at 18 ...I now have 3 children and married to my youngest dad with another on the way ....I know its hard now but you will come thru this wishing you all the luck in the world if you ever wanna chat pm me
    hugs Serina xx
     
  6. v2007

    v2007 Well-Known Member

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    My 1st daughters dad begged me to terminate my pregnancy when i was 16 i refused and she is now a healthy 8 yr old. She was the best decision i ever made.

    Have a happy and healthy pregnancy.

    Your gonna do so well.

    V x x
     
  7. graceS

    graceS first baby

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    thank you.
    i just dont really no and understand how some one can not have anything to do with there own child.
    x
     
  8. Janisdkh

    Janisdkh Well-Known Member

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    I am glad you are keeping the baby. You will find someone better. Imagine you have the abortion and you break up soon anyways. He doesnt sound like he cares about. As for his family wow what morons..
     
  9. Serene123

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    Have the baby and take him to court for all the money you can gettttt :)
     
  10. Janisdkh

    Janisdkh Well-Known Member

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    Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  11. graceS

    graceS first baby

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    he will be giving me money!!!!!!
    i`ll make sue ov that.
    I no what his mum is like im just so scareed they will try to get the baby took off me for him and them to hav.
     
  12. v2007

    v2007 Well-Known Member

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    Yip take him to court, tbh i hear more and more stories bout how these blokes make babies and just leave the Mums to look after them.
    He clearly is a pig.
    He may even change his mine when your stalk lands but by then the damage may have already have been done.

    V x x x
     
  13. Pyrrhic

    Pyrrhic Well-Known Member

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    They can't do that without good reason hun, ie you are an unfit mother who is unable to look after her child's basic needs.

    Remember to record every contact you have with them from now on just in case.
     
  14. LilMama2be

    LilMama2be Mommy to a Princess

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    Well, it's kind of the opposite for me.
    My ex .. i think he wants to be involved.
    But mom doesn't really care if he helps or not. its his choice.
    ANd if he doesn't, she wont even force him to pay child support...
    because she's afraid he wont treat the baby right.
     
  15. Younglutonmum

    Younglutonmum Mummy To Maya & Bump

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    Twatsssssssssssssss
     
  16. princess_vix

    princess_vix Guest

    You'll do just great without him!!

    You don't need him you got a gorgeous baby on the way :) xx
     
  17. preciousmami

    preciousmami Guest

    Hun thats horrible..But dont go getting an abortion just because they arent going to be there the babys better off without him anyway if hes gonna be a prick like that!!
    I wish it was that simple for me my ex is manipulating and Id prefer it if him and his mum said they didnt want anything to do with me and the baby instead of pretending they care and emotionally blackmailing me all the time :(
    x
     
  18. PixieKitty

    PixieKitty Guest

    Good to see you're keeping little one :) i'm sure you'll make a wonderful mum!
    If he's so intent on not being part of the baby's life then have him sign over his rights, that way he can't have the baby taken off you.
    I can't believe his parents are behaving this way, I mean I expect it of young men but you'd think they'd want to see their grandchild. Silly people.
     
  19. nikky0907

    nikky0907 Well-Known Member

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    Agreed!

    He doesn't get to decide this.You can at any time take him to court and file for financial support.It's his responsibility too.

    :hugs:
     
  20. Faerie

    Faerie Proud Mummy

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    I agree with what rafwife said, you need to make sure you're documenting any of his messages, just in case they try and turn things around in the future.
    Good on you for standing up for yourself.
     

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