sorry to put a dampner on the happiest forum!! but wot do you single mommies do at christmas? this year it will just be me and the tiddy winkles waking up to pressies( craig going home to see his family ) how do you arrange daddy seeing his kids? every christmas(for as long as i can remember!) i go to both my mums and dads, one for lunch one for xmas tea lol, last 2 years i also included darrens mum(i wont be this year.. she has had no contact with kids since march....no cards for kids bday or that.. no calls nothing) i know darren will want to see kids, but i dont want him causing friction on christmas day!