Georgia7
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I had my baby boy on the 4th of September. I was having mild pains all day on the Sunday, 1am on Monday morning my waters broke. I went into labour and delivery with the worst contractions in the world ( baby was back to back) my labour wasn't progressing and I was only half a cm dialated. I kept getting sent home because of this and I wasn't coping well at all. On all fours crying my eyes out because the pain was so bad and the contractions didn't have a space Inbetween! Long story short I had my baby on Wednesday afternoon at 1:15. Pushed for an hour and a half and baby would not come out. Rushed to theatre for an emergency section, baby was stuck behind my bladder. They tore my
Bladder open by accident during the procedure and I lost ALOT of blood. Basically it couldn't have went any worse. I had to have a catheter in for 2 weeks and I've had a lot of complications since. I've been mourning the birth that I never got and slowly coming to terms with it. We all have this idea in our heads of what it would be like but I got the complete opposite and this was very hard to deal with.
Anyways. Sitting with my sisters today we were all talking about it. My mam and dad have been so helpful with my recovery. Coming round and helping out any way they can. My sister then says to my
Mam 'how come Georgia gets all this help, you didn't give us this much when we had our babies' to which my mam replied 'because she's been through alot' to which my sister said 'at least we actually pushed our babies out. She didn't'
I don't know if I'm being too sensitive but it really got to me. By no stretch of the imagination do I think an emergency c section is an easy way out. Which is what I think she was getting at. It's really really annoyed me especially since I'm so upset I never got the natural birth I wanted.
Sigh. Just needed to get this off my chest! Xxx
Bladder open by accident during the procedure and I lost ALOT of blood. Basically it couldn't have went any worse. I had to have a catheter in for 2 weeks and I've had a lot of complications since. I've been mourning the birth that I never got and slowly coming to terms with it. We all have this idea in our heads of what it would be like but I got the complete opposite and this was very hard to deal with.
Anyways. Sitting with my sisters today we were all talking about it. My mam and dad have been so helpful with my recovery. Coming round and helping out any way they can. My sister then says to my
Mam 'how come Georgia gets all this help, you didn't give us this much when we had our babies' to which my mam replied 'because she's been through alot' to which my sister said 'at least we actually pushed our babies out. She didn't'
I don't know if I'm being too sensitive but it really got to me. By no stretch of the imagination do I think an emergency c section is an easy way out. Which is what I think she was getting at. It's really really annoyed me especially since I'm so upset I never got the natural birth I wanted.
Sigh. Just needed to get this off my chest! Xxx