Jammybiscuit
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I'm 6 weeks pregnant with my second child & was so excited I told my sister at 5 weeks & my parents days later. We also told my partners mum & they were all told not to tell anyone our news as it is so early in the pregnancy.
I have a brother who I don't see that often so I was really excited to tell him on the phone to hear his reaction. I phoned him 3 times this week to tell him & he didn't get back to me (he works very long hours) but still wanted to tell him in my own time.
I happened to bump into my aunt today (mums sister) who I hadn't seen for a while & told her I was pregnant ( I have bad anxiety & couldn't think what to talk about & it just kind of came out!) She was delighted & promised she wouldn't tell anyone ( which I believe she won't)
I then told my mum on the phone a few hours later that I told my auntie. She seemed a bit annoyed that my auntie knew before my brother did. Fast forward to an hour ago & I get a private message from my brothers girlfriend congratulating me. I'm so angry as I specifically told my mum not to tell him!
With my first pregnancy, my parents told everyone & I didn't get to share my news myself with any family members so this time felt really special to me to be able to tell people myself. I feel violated & like I can't trust her. What makes it worse is that my partner warned me she wouldn't keep it quiet (she's not good at keeping secrets) but I decided to trust her this time as she promised me she wouldn't tell anyone.
Was talking to my Dad on the phone & he admitted they told my Brother as my Mum didn't think it was right that my Auntie knew before him! My mums in bed as it's late so I can't talk to her about it until tomorrow but I am absoluteit fuming! Feel like I can't tell her anything now
I have a brother who I don't see that often so I was really excited to tell him on the phone to hear his reaction. I phoned him 3 times this week to tell him & he didn't get back to me (he works very long hours) but still wanted to tell him in my own time.
I happened to bump into my aunt today (mums sister) who I hadn't seen for a while & told her I was pregnant ( I have bad anxiety & couldn't think what to talk about & it just kind of came out!) She was delighted & promised she wouldn't tell anyone ( which I believe she won't)
I then told my mum on the phone a few hours later that I told my auntie. She seemed a bit annoyed that my auntie knew before my brother did. Fast forward to an hour ago & I get a private message from my brothers girlfriend congratulating me. I'm so angry as I specifically told my mum not to tell him!
With my first pregnancy, my parents told everyone & I didn't get to share my news myself with any family members so this time felt really special to me to be able to tell people myself. I feel violated & like I can't trust her. What makes it worse is that my partner warned me she wouldn't keep it quiet (she's not good at keeping secrets) but I decided to trust her this time as she promised me she wouldn't tell anyone.
Was talking to my Dad on the phone & he admitted they told my Brother as my Mum didn't think it was right that my Auntie knew before him! My mums in bed as it's late so I can't talk to her about it until tomorrow but I am absoluteit fuming! Feel like I can't tell her anything now