I dunno what to feel, one minute im raging then the next minute im crying. Damn hormones. I got special xmas cards that u slot a pic into so they are more personal. I got copies of my 3d scan and put the pics into cards for my mum and step dad, and also my MIL and her husband. Just wrote on the inside To nanny and granda. Cant wait to meet u both, Lots of Love from the bump They were all thrilled etc, but then MIL was on the fone to me earlier and told me that FOB seen the card last nite sitting on the table, lifted it, looked at the pic of the baby and then threw it from him, Didnt even put the fucking thing back, just lashed it on the table, and never said a word!! Fuck sake Im so annoyed, how can he not be effected by seeing a picture of his child? His mum also told him that she now knows the sex, but it wasnt her place to tell him and if he wanted to know what the sex was, then he knew my address and my fone number. He just replied saying, Whats the point, I know its a boy so why would I bother contacting her to find out something I already know, Ummmm Sorry arsehole!! Ur fucking wrong!!! Sorry for the rant, I need to get it outta me otherwise I get wound up and then get pains in my tummy.