Wow...ladies...this is getting way out of hand. Perhaps if everyone just thinks before they post, it would be good. Some of the reactions being quoted and tossed around by all would likely not be said had each person not felt they were being slammed or belittled.
Tolerance does not mean everyone's opinion is treated as correct. It does mean that everyone is still allowed to hold their opinion. To believe that tolerance means we're all correct is actually not tolerance. Tolerance implies that there is a clash or butting of heads, but that each person allows the other to their own opinion, no matter how wrong they feel the other person is.
To also clarify, a person who does hold to the Bible as authority is still well within proper etiquette to "judge" an act as not moral or appropriate. A lot of people toss the "judge not, lest ye be judged" out as the fact that God is the only one who can say right/wrong. That's theologically incorrect. The Scripture actually gives every indication that it is proper for things to be pointed out as improper, sinful, etc., but it indicates that the same way we measure others, we are also measured. (Ex. I should tell someone it's sinful to lie then turn around and lie.) Those words were because hypocrites hurt the cause of Christ - which is love and redemption.
BTW - Christians cannot and should not expect non-Christians to act and behave like Christians. It isn't fair. It's like expecting someone new to a country to be fluent within hours of landing.
At any rate, before we all jump all over each other and get off track, let's remember the original reason for this post. This young woman was seeking input as to whether she should have a baby young with her boyfriend. She's young and looking for an outlet. Let's not hijack her thread any more.