I realize this thread might get locked...but Im hoping some of you can give me some insight before then. Last Feb I suffered a HORRIBLE mmc. Nearly bled out and died...and obv lostt the baby. I wanted that baby so much...but I understand things happen for a reason and this baby will bring DH and I what we have been missing At the time I was miscarrying...a close friend of mine found out she was 10 weeks preg. Her and her bf decided that the party life was so much more appealinf...they opted to terminate the pregnancy. She told me all about it...as I was in the process of losing my baby. It destroyed me. Absolutely killed me inside. She had a wonderful...healthy pregnancy and ended it because she thought acting like a teenager was more appealing. She is now pregnant again. They began trying not long after the miscarriage. She got her bfp about a week ago and thinks she is around 6 weeks. I want to be supportive...but how? This is torture. Why wasnt their last baby good enough?? Sorry...just lost.