So FED UP.

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RANT//RANT//RANT
I'm irritated. I'm pissed, I'm as angry as can be. I do not work to come home to a nasty house and my bathroom smelling like you tried to sneak a smoke in the because "it's too cold outside" I'm sorry but you know what if it's too cold then maybe you should quit or stop being a little b**** about it. You are a grown man and it is 50 degrees outside. You don't work so the least you could do is pick up before you go to bed. (I know it's hard being a STHD OR STHM but it takes five minutes to clear the stuff from the day out of the living room. I should not come home to a nasty home where you leave your bowl napkins and silver wear on the hehe floor after you've eaten or your shoes sloppily taken off by the couch with the blanket randomly in the middle of the he he he floor and clothes everywhere. This is not a bachelor bad. I don't care if your 22 27 or 34 you should have respect for the home you live in. Yeah maybe the dishes aren't done every night. I don't care about that I care that you won't take five minutes to make sure I come home and don't freak out about the fact that I'm tired and now I have to clean up your mess when I know damn well you had time to clean it and chose not to. I am not your maid nor do I enjoy working 40+ hours and week then having to come home and clean when you stay at home all day every day and then at night sit outside and bullshit with your friends. No I'm so tired of it and can't stand that you can't act like a grown up. Shit you can even take the five seconds to put your clothes in the hamper at the end of the night. So after I get off work I have to clean up your mess downstairs and then come upstairs only to clean our room.
If you managed to make it through that rant I'm sorry. But I don't believe in airing your dirty laundry on Facebook and such. But I really needed to ge that out..
 
Oh hun I know this feeling well!! I'm so sorry that is so frustrating. And unfortunately there isn't really anything I can do or say to make it better. Massive hugs!!!
 
Oh I know there's nothing anyone can do to make it better. Except him but I doubt that will happen any time soon.... but thank you for the hugs. Just helps to get it off my chest.
 
Ohh rant away!! It most certainly helps to get things off your chest.
I agree with the dirty laundry and facebook too. I don't understand people's obsession with writing every single detail of their day on the internet...... write a bloody biography..... no bugger will read that either.... or give a rats arse!
I also complety understand how it must wind you up I have OCD amongst other things and I think coming home to what you described would put me in the loony bin!
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: xxx
 
Hugs! I just want to throttle him on your behalf.
 
you sound like my mom! (in a good way). my mom use to come home and tell me and my siblings the same thing. so the older I got the more I understood where she was coming from and completely agreed. you shouldn't have to work then come home and have to clean up after no grown man.. hope things get better and agree with not putting your business on facebook
 
Men are like kids - you have to tell them over and over and over and over again how to be! Sometimes my husband is all "stop telling me what to do!" and I tell him "well then do what you know you should...." and he storms off, but then he changes whatever it was he should have been doing and wasn't. For about a week... then the cycle starts over. BUT their are things we don't even have to go through that about anymore because he FINALLY got it! LOL Just like kids..... B)
 
Men are like kids - you have to tell them over and over and over and over again how to be! Sometimes my husband is all "stop telling me what to do!" and I tell him "well then do what you know you should...." and he storms off, but then he changes whatever it was he should have been doing and wasn't. For about a week... then the cycle starts over. BUT their are things we don't even have to go through that about anymore because he FINALLY got it! LOL Just like kids..... B)

This exactly! Having a husband/male OH is like having an extra child.
 
This brings back ugly memories of my Ex husband of 15yrs. He was everything you describe but he did work but so did I, and he still expected that I do EVERYTHING at home including Dinner after he was already home and could have started it... and I can go on to a ton of other stuff as you described. Venting does help to release some of the bad energy you have bottled up, but in the end the action is what helps. Hope you find a happy medium and a way to get your point across with success and a complete change from now on. I know I couldn't come home like that... I'm now married to a man that part takes in cleaning, cooking, laundry and other things... the brat is more cleaner than me... sad I know but he is such a blessing.
 
It's sad and yet funny to hear how many of you understand where I am coming from. I love him he cooks dinner. So that's nice but if it's laundry that's simply out of the question mostly because if it were up to him all the clothes in the house would go into one thing. (And lord knows how many nice panties and clothes I've had ruined because of that!) So I'm okay with laundry but put it in the hamper at least...dishes well those are iffy. That's where he reminds me the most of a child. Constantly reminding him and rewarding hhim if he does them. :)
 
you sound like my mom! (in a good way). my mom use to come home and tell me and my siblings the same thing. so the older I got the more I understood where she was coming from and completely agreed. you shouldn't have to work then come home and have to clean up after no grown man.. hope things get better and agree with not putting your business on facebook

Hahaha that irony! I texted my mom when I finally laid down in bed last night. And told her I never realized just how much I turned out like her. I too remember her coming home and saying the same thing to me as a kid.
 
haha right?! and I agree, I didn't think I was like my mom until I would say and do something that my mom would do lol
 

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