DH and I both have quite large extended families and we are quite close to a good proportion of our cousins (my cousin was my MOH at our wedding ahead of my sisters, that's how close we are). The problem we're having is that we have one boy's name (Michael), but I am unsure of it, and DH is unsure of the backup plan (Luke - which I love!!), and we have a girl's name, but are thinking "what the hell do we do if we have twin girls (only hoping for one bean this time around, but you never know!) but whenever we think of names we really like, one of our cousins will have already used it!! I love the name Sean - my cousin used it, Jamie - my sister used it, Ciaran - DH's sis & my cousin used it, Jessica - my cousin used it, Matthew - my cousin used it....it goes on and on! Anyone else encountered this problem!