I didnt want to be this person, but i feel after recent events (and not just on the most recent post) have warranted it. I think its best for me to leave these forums. I have my own problems and beliefs and its not healthy for me to feel attacked. Firstly I want to say thank you to those who have helped support me in the past this forum has helped a lot in difficult times but it is definitely time for me to move on. but secondly i simply want to say that many here cross the boundaries. it is for nobody here to judge somebody elses parenting skills (ive seen it happen to more than just me) this is a forum for support and advice. if you dislike something someone has said, if its not referring to you...ignore it. dont reply. its not your place. thanks again! and i hope nobody else feels as targetted as I have recently.