So many early BFPs!!!

[BusyMomma]

I must be super oversensitive this month because I am at most 10 dpo, maybe only 8 or 9, and I am totally convinced I'm out because my tests are I've seen lots of posts this month of both faint and obvious positives at between 9 and 11 dpo. My tests are stark white....I can't make a line appear no matter how hard I squint lol.

I know there's always next month, and I know we aren't out till AF shows...but does anyone else find themselves getting discouraged easily? Like it just gets to where you're feeling like if it was gonna be it would be by now, even when it's still early. I need to try to find a way to switch to NTNP lol...this is gonna drive me nuts!

 

[brooke1993]

Yes sweetie I have OFTEN felt the same way BUT all of our bodies are different and some people are lucky enough to see theirs early but I want you to know mine was SHARK white last month for 3 days then bam very faint and then was an obvious line,I am just now "O" so I have a long 10-14 days ahead of me depending on my LP is seeing how this is my 1st cycle since my m/c
Hang in there hunny it will happen if it hasnt already xoxoxo

 

[BusyMomma]

Thanks hun! I had a faint BFP last month at 10 dpo. So I guess since that's where I'm at now I'm just expecting I'd have it by now. But then again...I really can't expect to get pregnant two months in a row either!

I hope your TWW goes really quickly for you! Mine has been dragging but alas the weekend is almost here and should be a good distraction! We have all 3 kids this weekend and 2 of our nieces so we will have a loud and full house!

 

[mnjhowell]

I felt the same way and I tested negative 6dpo-11dpo and I didn't get a positive till 12dpo. Don't give up yet

 

[Babee_Bugs]

i get to about 9DPO and if i havent had a positive by then, then i totally know im out!, which is bonkers as not every1 gets a BFP so early on...

Im a great believer in it will happen 1 day!, ill make bloody sure of it lol x

 

[natcat86]

I got my bfp today 7 days after af was due so you aren't out till she shows up!

 

[lisap2008]

I rarely get a BFP before 13dpo so I dont bother testing till then. if you do a search on fertility friend there are alot of charts with BFP after 15dpo. so a early BFP is actually not as common as it seems. Good luck.

 

[mammag]

I'm the same way, when my tests show at like 8 dpo I'm just completely bummed, even though in my last pregnancy I had NO line at all till 11 dpo!! We are too hard on ourselves Good Luck.

 

[BusyMomma]

I'm the same way, when my tests show at like 8 dpo I'm just completely bummed, even though in my last pregnancy I had NO line at all till 11 dpo!! We are too hard on ourselves Good Luck.

I agree, we are definitely too hard on ourselves! I didn't "try" to get pregnant with my son. In fact, I was taking bc pills and trying NOT to get pregnant, and I did anyway. when OH and I decided to start trying we were positive it would happen right away. He and his ex wife got pregnant right away with both their girls and I got pregnant while trying to prevent it...needless to say we didn't foresee these issues lol